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Twipra (Tripura) has
a rich cultural heritage of music, dances,
fine-arts, handicrafts, belief systems, social
structure and shifting cultivation. The Boroks
were (are) very mirthful nation having distinct
and unique folk tales, stories, songs, legends,
social traditions, customs and norms, belief
systems, musical instruments, handloom designs
and way of life. Traditionally, they are nature
worshipers. They are also sometimes called
animists. However, due to the direct influence
of modernity and change some of them are now
professing Hinduism, Christianity and Buddhism
in Tripura.
It is a
traditional fact that folk-tale, folk-lore,
folk-song, folk-music and dance folk-arts and
handicrafts of the Boroks and their countenance
combine to offer them an aesthetic life and
contribute a great deal to socio-cultural
education. Their folk-songs, music and dances
are a composite whole, which is one of the
dominant characteristics of their socio-cultural
life. In this regard, it is worth mentioning
that "The simple folk-tunes conveying the
feelings and sentiments their lives and
thoughts, their activities and achievements,
their morals and discipline are of great value
and highly educative."1
It is true
that almost all the entire traditional
socio-cultural life of the Boroks of Tripura is
mirrored in 'Huk' or shifting cultivation. In
other words, shifting cultivation or jhumming is
one of the important sources of all walks of
life of the traditional Borok people. "As the
life and culture of the Tripuris revolve through
Jhum cultivation, most of the dances
and
music find their outlets in different activities
connected with Jhum."* This
method of cultivation is 'burn and slash'
method, which is practiced by the Boroks in the
hilly areas. It is perhaps the most primitive
method of agriculture. In Kokborok it is called
'Huk'. 'Huk' is very acute in Borok society. The
word 'Huk' literally means 'thorough
collection'. They enjoy everything they need in
their life by practicing 'Huk'. Because it is a
multi-crop cultivation system. The place or area
where shifting cultivation is practiced is also
called 'Huk'. And whatever crops are cultivated
and grown in 'Huk' are of very high quality.
From time immemorial they have been practicing
this type of cultivation. Thus, traditionally
they are very close to nature and live in nature
and their socio-economic and cultural life is
based on 'Huk'. In fact, 'Huk' is an essential
ingredient of the life of the Borok people.
Boroks and 'Huk' are inseparable from each
other. Because one can hardly talk about the
life of the Boroks without talking about 'Huk'.
The concept of 'Huk' is so deeply rooted in the
life of the Borok people that one can never keep
it aside from their way of life.
Singing and playing
music are an integral part of the life of the
Boroks. Singing comes as naturally to the Boroks
as breathing. The Borok tribal songs are of
various kinds. There are life cycle songs sung
at different occasions like birth, marriage and
death. Some songs deal with different seasons
like the spring, the rains etc. and the songs
connected with festivals and religions are sung
at the time of offering to deities. All these
songs are very educative, inspiring and heart
touching. They sing in mirth and in sorrow, when
alone or in groups, in
sunshine and in rain. For example, they sing
various types of Kokborok songs right from the
time of site selection and jungle cutting for
shifting cultivation upto the harvesting time of
the cultivation. Jaduni song is very popular
folk-song in the Borok traditional life.
Nature's children as Boroks are in the midst of
dark green wood and thick bamboo and wood
products have established a distinct and
colourful life, arts, crafts and culture. Thus
all the Borok traditional musical instruments
used in dances and music are made of bamboos and
woods, for example, Sarenda, Chongpreng, Dangdu,
Sumui, and Kham etc. are some major traditional
musical instruments of the Boroks. They sing
various types of Kokborok classical and modern
songs during the time of wedding, jhumming and
other festivals.
A unique feature is
found in the tradition of Borok music and songs,
that is, to narrate a story by singing. Thus,
hearing the story that is presented through
songs, the listeners sometimes burst into
laughter or get overwhelmed with tears.
Story-telling and singing are more than
exercises for entertainment and passing away the
time. The Boroks get the information from their
elderly people or community experts that the
narration of those stories sometimes would take
a longer period, say, a couple of days or a week
or so. Among these instrumental musical
narrations, there are many heart-breaking
stories such as Sikam Chhoba, climbing on high
plucking flower, Mamla Mwsa Chamani (i.e. a
story narrating how a love affair was melted in
the mouth of a tiger), the song of cutting
thorny plants called Jali (Raisok tanmani
rwchapmung in Kokborok), Khumpui, Chethuang,
Kuchuk Hasikam, Kuchuk Kherengbar Bubar, Nuwai,
etc. At present, many of the modern Kokborok
singers sing with modern musical instruments in
harmony with their traditional musical
instruments keeping their ancient musical
instruments before them, which enabled them to
influence the Borok modern society. For example,
Kumar Sachin Debbarman and his son Rahul
Debbarman were aborigines and royal family
members of Tripura who were famous music
directors and singers in the world of Bollywood
of our country.
Dancing is perhaps
the oldest expression of man's joy, even earlier
than singing. Dancing is a very important part
of the life of the Borok people. Dancing is not
the previlege of the few. Every Borok man and
woman participates in this group activity. They
perform their traditional and modern dances and
sing their traditional and modern songs not only
to observe festivals in joy but also in sorrow.
They feel proud of themselves in performing a
wide range of dance and music
in various festivals
and fairs in the State.2 Goria dance, Hojagiri
dance, Lebangbumani dance, Mamita dance, etc.
are some of the popular Borok traditional
dances.
The Borok people
observe their traditional festivals in a very
colourful manner. Goria is the main festival
among the Boroks. Almost all the clans of the
Borok community worship this God Baba Goria. It
starts from the 1st day of the month of Baishakh
(Bengali Era) and continues for seven days (i.e.
between 3rd and 4th week of April normally). The
prayers to Baba Goria are offered for seven days
with the hope that the production of harvest
will be filled with happiness, prosperity,
blessing and peace throughout the year and so
on. During sowing of seeds the Boroks pray to
God Goria for a good harvest, the celebration of
which continues for a week with songs and
dances. So the joys and sorrow of the hills are
echoed through tunes and rhythms. During this
festival, in every house of the Borok community,
they put a bamboo in the middle of the courtyard
and get it covered with a clothe as a symbol of
the deity. If they have some promise or
commitment of offering of a goat or a cock to
the deity, they offer that item at the time of
worshiping Baba Goria during the festival.
On the
occasion of Goria festival, different varieties
of rice cakes are made in each and every house
of the Borok society. Some of the recipes are as
follows auan bangwi (different types of rice
boiled in a cup made of lairu leaf), auan belep
(baked like a bread), auan bati (round shaped
boiled cake), auan sokrang (similar to that of
malpua, a puffed up rice cake fried in hot oil),
auan buiragi, auan jok, auan peng, auan tokma,
auan budul, auan bwthaih, auan kwsap and auan
tokhlai etc. The female members of the house
make all these preparations. The Borok young
boys and girls go from house
to
house to present all these types of rice cakes
along with a bwtwk wine and rice beer to their
seniors. They offer their respect and obeisance
to their elders and in turn the elders also
bestow their blessings to their subordinates.
They also receive presentation of bwtwk wine
from the elders. Then they divide themselves
into different groups and drink that bwtwk
separately. In this way they enjoy themselves
during this festival.
During this
festival, every member of the family be a senior
or a junior, visits the relatives' house as
guest. Youth groups carry the symbol of Garia
house-to-house singing together. As education
spread among the Boroks this Goria festival is
getting popular even among the circle of
educated Boroks and thus it is celebrated in
different areas in a festival mode. Nowadays,
Goria is also observed in a grand style by
groups of people together like a public festival
in the manner of Durga puja style in urban or
semi urban areas. It is also observed on the
state level. Thus, nowadays, Goria has turned
into a public festival among the Boroks in
Tripura.
Hojagiri dance* is
primarily performed during Hojagiri festival by
the Brus (Reangs) of the Borok society at local,
state, national and even at international
levels, where the dancers begin from feet
creating and standing a bottle on the head lamp
above it, the Brus (Reangs) belly dance twisting
rhythmically the lower part of the body, in
front of the spectators or onlookers.
Another popular
Borok traditional dance is Lebangbumani dance,
which is a merry-making dance. During
the monsoon period,
flocks of charming colourful insects called
Lebang visit hilly slopes i.e. in 'Huk' area, in
search of seeds. The annual visit of the
Lebang helps the Borok youths to indulge in
merry-making. The men folk make peculiar
rhythmic sound with the help of two bamboo chips
in their hands attracting the insects to come
out from their hiding places, while women folk
run tottering down the hilly slopes to catch
hold of these insects. These activities are
depicted in the dance form called Lebangbumani
dance.
Mamita dance
is also a very popular Borok traditional dance,
which is performed by the Boroks on the occasion
of new rice harvest season. It is also called
Mamita or 'Maikwtal Chama' festival. It is
related to 'Huk'. Because Mamita is a kind of
high quality rice produced in the 'Huk'. Binni
rice* produced
in Jhum is required for this 'Maikwtal puja'.
So, on
this special occasion Mamita
dance is traditionally performed by the Boroks.
W.W. Hunter also observes that in the month of
Ashin, at the beginning of the harvest season, a
festival called 'Maikwtal' ('mai' meaning Paddy
and 'kwtal' meaning new) is observed by the hill
men.
Borok Bachelor's
Dormitory: In common with many tribes of the
North-east India the Borok tribal people too
have the traditional institution of a bachelor's
dormitory, referred to by many writers as 'Jainok'.
The word 'Jainok' is a Kokborok word and was
used by the Boroks; 'Jai' meaning 'caring' and 'nok'
meaning 'house'. It is a traditional social
education system of Borok community where young
boys and girls are educated about their culture,
tradition, customs, belief system, social and
moral norms etc. In this regard, elders and
experts of the community impart all the good
teachings to the youths. Stories and incidents
of importance are narrated to them through
Jainok. Discipline, obedience, morality and
efficiency are the hallmarks of Borok Jainok.
Borok Social and
Cultural Festivals: Ter is the Koborok name for
festival. Abulsumung (Uathop), Bathom (Khuluma),
Bisikwtal (Tring), Buiso, Goria, Hangrai (Twima),
Hojagiri (Mailuma), Kailabari (Lampra), Kharchi,
Ker, Khrismas, Mamita, Osa, etc. can be
considered as the major Borok traditional
festivals. Goria, Buiso, Hojagiri and Hangrai
are the four festivals, which are gorgeously
performed by the Boroks. On these days of
social festivities, younger members of the
family light incense and offer their obeisance
at the feet of the elders by offering flowers
and pure water. The parents and the grand
parents take bath in warm water and put on new
dresses. Borok
Traditonal Deities and Devils: Ama (Mwtai Kotor),
Twima, Sangrongma, Bikhata, Akhata, Mailuma,
Khuluma, Haichukma, Noksuma, Kalaiya, Ker, Natri,
Lampra, Gotia and Beti Kapru are the Borok
traditional deities. Thumnairok-bonirok, Burasa,
Bwrwirok, Phara, Nusukali, Swkal, Srijodu,
Srijomdu, Hakosok, and Deur are the Borok
devils.
Borok Traditional
Garments, Dresses and other Wearing Items: Khum,
Surang, Dulai, Kamchwlwi, Kutai, Rijai, Ritrak,
Rikutu, Sakhok, Lakhuk, Patla, Yaklap, Chanduk,
kamsoi, Kanrwbai, Ribwsa, Rignai, Rituku, Risa,
pakuri, Mokholop, Yakholop etc. are the Borok
traditional garments, dresses and other wearing
items.
Borok Traditional
Weaving and Knitting Designs: Anji, Chamwthwibar,
Khamjang, Khuphang-uathwngphang-kuaiphang,
Kuaichu bokobom, Kwsakwpra, malibar, Muikhunchok,
Musili, Phantokbar, Salu, Songkai, Takhumtwi,
Thaimaikrang, Tokbakbar, Toksa, Toprengsa
khitung, Jirani, Khumbar, Kuaichu, Kuaichu ulta,
Kwsapra, Miyong, Monaisora, Natupaliya, Sada/Saidra,
Similikyapai, Sorbangi, Temanliya, Thaiplobar,
Tokha, Toiling, etc are the unique patterns and
designs of Borok weaving and knitting clothes
and dresses.
Traditional Weaving
Instruments and Items of the Boroks: The Borok
traditional weaving instrument is called Thanti.
Following are the weaving instruments and items
used by the Boroks: Bangkho, Besokuahsa, Chokher,
Kebengtak, Khul, Khwtwi, Khwtwngbudul,
Khwtwngjabri, Kosongtak, Mundai, Naluahsa,
Phampui, Phanuahsa, Ribokobom, Rikari,
Riswngphang, Sinji, Sobamuahsa, Suchi, Swkwi,
Takthong, Twitreng,
Uakbua/Bamkhua, Uaniyakung, Besoko, Chokha,
Kathoma, Khandal, Khuchwlwi, Khwtwng,
Khwtwnggana, Khwtwngguni, Lalima, Nal, Natai,
Phanchwlwi, Rikathon, Rihan, Riswngduk, Rwsami,
Sobam, Soro, Takduk, Suri, Thuri, uahsa,
Uakebeng and Yakhotom are the weaving
instruments and items used by the Boroks.
Borok Traditional
Ornaments: Ornaments are called Kanrwbai in
Kokborok. The traditional ornaments used by the
Boroks are as follows: Adwlwi, Anchwlwi, Balik,
Bajibon, Baju, Bauti, Bengki, Boki, Bwtang,
Chondrohar, Churi, Deri, Ganthi, Ganthikwchak,
Gathri, kakho, Kasor, Kharuk, Koli, Langithomtom,
Lokoi, Loloki, Lulu, Madwlwi, Mairukhubwtwng,
Mathiya, Nabak, Nakphu, Pudri, Puichang, Phota,
Rangbakbwtwng, Rangbwtang, Resni Chanduk, Riduk,
Rikothe, Sangeng, Sikol, Sola, Surang, Tar, Toya,
Uakhum, Uarik and Yakso.
Different Varieties
of Borok Traditional Paddy: Borok paddies are of
very high quality with excellent fragrance and
rich nutritious value. They are as follows:
Aduma, Badiya, Charke, Dapha, Gaburi, Garuathum,
Garuchikon, Garukuphur, Garukwchak, Galong,
Kalakwpra, Kalasangtwi, Kupruyalwk, Langaibadiya,
Mairiyang, Maiuaksa, Mamichampe, Mamichaprang,
Mamihangar, Mamihari, Mamitakhuk, Mamithukru,
Mamitokha, Mamiuatolok, Sangtwi, Sariya,
Sunajoli and Tarko/Tarke.
Different Varieties
of Borok Traditional Curry: There are more than
30 items of Borok curry. They are as follows:
Ahmui, Auandru, Muihan, Bermabwtwi, Bisri, Bwtwi,
Chakhwi, Chakhwtwi, Chakhwtwikwthang, Chatang,
Deng, Godok, Hang,
Hontali, Ik, Irimbak, Khalok, Milani, Muiakol,
Muitru, Muiborok, Mur, Mwkhwi, Napek, Peng,
Rabra, Rebe, Ruk, Ser, Sobailaih Chakhwi, Sok,
Yaksapik, Yohk, etc.
Borok Traditional
Games and Sports: There are about 40 items of
traditional games and sports of Boroks. Asku
musku, Badul dulmung, Bokol huimung, Bolong
chamung, Bwrwichwk kobor, Dudu, Dwkhwi somung,
Gong, Guphale guphal, Hari, Huijakmung, Kahdong
kahmung, Kobong tisamung, Khailaimung, Longoi
chokmung, Maimui sohngmung, Misip kwthwi, Milok
bihrmung, Mokol khapung, Muphuk sagnang,
Nailauahsa, Phan somung, Ramtan laihru, Rikothe
takmung, Sohnglaimung, Solaimung, Swkwi, Ui-ui,
Yongla barsamung, Daki thwngmung, Redi thwngmung,
Teng dang thwngmung, Kwtkwt thwngmung, Koldom
kamung, Pair thwngmung, Gulach thwngmung,
Maikhor, Chur thwngmung, Buma thwnglaimung
etc.
Inheritance of
Properties in the Borok Society: The Borok
people have a distinct tradition of inheritance
of land property. Once upon a time, they were
basically jhum cultivators. They had the life of
jhum-based economy. They entered into regular
farming in a much later time, say, 100 years
ago. Every year they used to travel from place
to place in search of newer and fertile jhum
plots. In the course of time, as the population
grew and inflow of illegal migrants from across
the international border into the region, the
scarcity of fertile jhum land was felt. In their
gypsy jhum based life, they practically had no
property at all. Later on when they entered into
settled agriculture, they started to possess and
enjoy personal properties. The ownership would
continue until the land was sold or dis-tributed.
So, in those days,
their properties were a few things only such as
a plot of small land, a few domestic animals and
some ornaments used by the ladies and so on.
In the
traditional Borok society the properties could
be divided into two categories - (i) Achieved
through inheritance, and (ii) Personal
properties earned with hard labour. The sons and
daughters would inherit their father's property.
Generally, the youngest son would inherit the
lion share of the properties. The balance would
be equally distributed among other sons and
daughters. Even the girl would have a share on
her father's property. But that is not
compulsory. Sometimes the married or unmarried
girls would share their father's property if
father or brother were favourably disposed. It
would depend on the sweet desire of her father
or brother. There is no room for force or
compulsion there. If they were favourably
disposed, they would easily possess and enjoy
their father's property. Sometimes the master of
a family also can offer some share in the name
of his wife. If the wife passes her last portion
of life with her son or daughter, then they
possess that property. No one else can demand
ownership of that land. But if the relation
among other brothers and sisters is good and
sweet, sometimes they also can share their
mother's property. Or if the amount of that
property is big enough, then also other brothers
or sisters can achieve a little part of it as
inheritance. If a widow mother gets married for
the second time, the second husband can't claim
the ownership of that property.
But nowadays, if
the head of family expires, only his sons occupy
the lion-share of his property. The daughters
may get a minimum portion of it. After the
expiry of husband, the
wife's whole property is generally enjoyed either by a son or a daughter
of that widow where she takes shelter. If the
mother desires, she can also distribute some
portion of that land to some of her other sons
or daughters before her death. Of course, her
daughters generally occupy the registered land
in the name of mother. If the husband of her
daughter lives with her (known as nokni chamari),
then a lion share of that property should be
given to that daughter.
Besides, there
are also properties like domestic animals and
other goods of daily use. Many people also have
not only the land properties, but also a pair of
oxen, a milky cow or goat, cock and other
necessary paraphernalia needed for family life,
especially when the married couple arrange for
separate living.
In the Borok
society, generally the father distributes his
land among his sons or daughters during his
lifetime. In some other cases, the property is
distributed after his death. Of course,
sometimes, this is also found that they have
more or less a fight over the inheritance of
land and other properties even in the lifetime
of their father. So, sometimes, being afraid of
this possible fight after his death, the father
feels compelled to distribute his land before
his death. Sometimes, it is also found that the
elders create a kind of pressure to do so. Due
to invalid health, sometimes the father likes to
get rid of family problems and social
complexities, finally by distributing his
property to the concerned people. The problem
may get more complex when the father accepts
more than one wife. In such a case, the sons or
daughters of each wife may claim equal share
over the properties and generally it so happens
quite often. Then there is a great chance of
unhappiness created
among the family members. So the intelligent
father generally distributes his property before
his death and hence there cannot be any
possibility of family chaos or social problem
after his death.
But it is to be
noted that the whole property is not distributed
while the parents are still alive. A part of it
is kept in their name so that the husband and
wife can maintain their livelihood. No one can
interfere with that. Generally the son or
daughter who gives them shelter at their old age
gets the chance to possess and enjoy that
property. After the demise of the parents, this
property can be distributed among the descen-dents;
or if so wanted, the care taking son or daughter
can occupy the whole property. At the time of
distribution of the property, the father keeps
his own share and his wife's share only. He can
also keep the share meant to be given to the
unmarried daughter or immature children under
his custody. If someone has got a second wife,
then the descendents of the second wife also can
have equal right over their father's property.
But this facility is given only to the direct
descendents of a father. In case of a lady who
got married for the second time already having
child or children from her first husband, this
facility is denied, i.e. the children born from
previous father can not occupy the property of
their step father. This rule is being followed
in Borok society for quite a long period of
time.
Besides that,
there is also the tradition of accepting
step-sons or daughter in Borok society. These
step-sons or daughters are treated as good as
their direct children. And the step-children
also consider their step-father as good as
direct father. If they think as different, it is
considered as sins. So in
many families where
there are no issues, acceptance of step-children
is found as a common affair. They also possess
the whole property of their step-parents as like
as the direct descendents. If there are no
step-children or direct children, the property
is possessed by the sons of his brothers. If the
father has only a daughter and no son, then the
daughter alone can occupy the whole property of
her father. After the death of the father, their
mother maintains the daughters. A widow can
inherit the possession of all the property of
her dead husband who left no issues behind; but
in case the widow gets remarried, then the dead
man's brothers or sons of his brothers inherit
the property. The same rule is applicable when
the widow meets death.
In some other cases,
someone may form a separate and new family,
being separated from father's family even in the
lifetime of his father, and then father also
immediately hands over his due share. Thus
receiving his due share the son also happily
maintains his separate family along with his
wife and children. In such case, he cannot
demand more and extra share on his father's
property after the death of his father.
Sometimes some one may get separated from his
father's family willingly and by force. Under
such circumstances, the father may withdraw all
support and temporarily may not give any
property to him out of grievance. But again,
when the grievance is pacified, the father gives
his son his due share. Or he may not get any
share as long as the father is alive but after
the death of his father he achieves his due
share.
A Borok can also
earn some personal property even living together
in a joint family. In such case, others cannot
interfere on that property. Thus, in the Borok
society, the system of
extra earning by personal labour is known as 'choroi
rimung'. For example, some members of family may
maintain some she goats or he goats or pigs or
milking cow etc. Someone else may also take some
land as mortgage and produce some harvest there.
Or someone else may cultivate a separate piece
of jhum land. These extra works have to be
performed in the intervals of other works
generally performed in a joint family, not by
hampering the main works of that family. In such
case the extra earning of the member concerned
is counted as his personal property. Even if he
gets separated to form a new family, anyone else
can't claim share on his property. The question
of distribution does not arise there. Following
the said system, anyone either married or
unmarried can earn his personal properties.
The elders are
placed at the topmost position in the Borok
Society. They are given a place of honour there.
In a family, village and in the whole society
the old people are honoured. This unlimited
honour makes others feel jealous. From this
angle, we can say that the elder men or women in
the Borok society are really fortunate enough.
Here a few
things about the Borok family may be mentioned.
In any family of Borok society grandfather or
father is the ultimate and sole authority of
that family. The family is controlled and
managed by him. His voice is final. He takes
decision in every respect and his decision is
counted as final. In case of necessity, he may
consult with his wife or the eldest son to
analyze the pros and cons of the matter.
Generally, no one disobeys the words of the
elders. They respect their parents as if demi-gods.
The parents can give necessary instructions,
advices and in case of necessity do
not
hesitate even to chastise their sons or
daughters, son in laws, unmarried brothers and
sisters and the grand children. Among all the
members of the family, the juniors always
respect the elders. Younger brothers and sisters
along with other younger members of the family
always show sufficient honour to their elders.
They always see them with the eyes of respect
and veneration. They obey their orders and
instructions. They never disobey their elders.
They never dare to reply to elders face. They
listen to the elder's instruction with downcast
looks and attention. They also offer similar
respect to their aunties, uncles and other
elders. Thus, the maternal uncles and aunties,
younger and elder brothers of their father are
always placed on the seat of honour on equal
level of their parents. Similarly the elders
also love their younger. They never show lack of
love and affection to them. Their eyes are
always smeared with affection.2
Borok Marriage
System: Marriage is the dependable support on
which family is built. The family in turn
provides such dependable support on which
society rests its foundation. A good marriage
provides the right environment in which children
can be nurtured and raised to become tasteful,
productive or generative citizen of the society.
Therefore, Borok marriage constitutes a very
important step in the individual's life.
Marriage is needful in every man and woman's
social life. In the Borok community, in the
morning of the marriage day 'Lampra Uathop' is
performed. After that a party is sent with a
palanquin, a bandparty and two waterjars, to the
bride's house for bringing her. Aslo some
ornaments are sent for the bride through them.
Before starting for the bride's house some rites
are performed on the water jars and
the
ornaments. Also two earthen water pitchers are
placed in front of the bridegroom's house with
mango leaf twigs on the pitchers. Two wicks are
also lighted on earthen plates containing
mustard oil. This rite is called 'Dangdua'.*
Like any other
tribal society Borok society has its respective
rules for selection of life partner. Nowadays
much importance is given to family background
and the moral character of the girl or the boy.
Economic condition, educational qualification,
physical beauty, etc. also play a very important
role at the time of selection of a boy or a
girl. The parents exercise their utmost care and
solemnity in the selection of the life partner
for their daughter / son. It is the duty of the
parents to carefully enquire into the character
and lineage of the bridegroom or the bride to
avoid any post marriage problems into the family
where there has been any case of insanity or
irrationality of almost any kind. But it should
be noted that at present age due to the
influence of various factors, for example, non-Borok
culture and modernity the life-partner might be
selected by him or her.
The age at which a
girl and a boy should be married is very
important in the Borok society, for that matter
in all societies. Every society according to its
social needs sanctions that a certain age should
be proper for the marriage of a girl or a boy.
Marriageable age may vary from tribe to tribe.
In ancient Borok society, there was no age bar
for marriage. In general, after attaining the
puberty or adolescence they perform the marriage
of the boy and girl. Among the educated Boroks
adult marriage is the general rule. In this kind
of marriage generally, the age of marriage
ranges between 20 and
25 years in case of male and 18 and 20 years in
case of female. Marriageable age of boy must be
adult in the sense that he is not only well
versed with the customs and traditions of the
Borok society but also mature enough to shoulder
the responsibilities of a householder. Marriage
usually hands over the additional
responsibilities of a family. A boy must be
physically mature and economically able to take
on these responsibilities. An immature boy will
find it difficult to maintain such
responsibility of married life. Before the
marriage the boy should accomplish his education
and enter a proper occupation. It is equally
applicable for the girl. A girl should complete
her education and acquire the skills that enable
her to stand on her own feet. Generally, bride
is younger than bridegroom. But in exceptional
case, there is no social objection if a girl is
elder than a boy. As per my personal observation
the bride may be senior to the groom by a few
years and it is usually performed in the case of
love affairs. The influence of economic
factors on the age of marriage has been the
tendency in the Borok society, today.
Marriage plays an
important role in Borok women's life. It has at
least three aspects - social, religious and
legal. In the Borok society, the social and
economic protection is the sole or the most
important cause of marriage. It is suggested by
community experts that only marriage makes a
Borok woman a complete person. Proprietorship of
paternal property is to be an important element
in the marriage settlement of the Boroks of
Twipra. A Borok woman gets paternal property as
a land or any movable property after the
marriage according to her father's economic
ability. Monogamy is
socially approved whereas polygamy is socially
strictly prohibited among the Boroks. Child
marriage is not practiced in Borok society.
Bride price is also prevalent among them. But
nowadays due to influence of many factors
Bridegroom price is getting its ground in their
society.
There are
generally 4 (four) types of marriages found
among the Boroks, which are socially approved.3
These are discussed
below: (i) Negotiated Marriage, (ii) Marriage by
Service, (iii) Marriage by payment or Bride
price marriage and (iv) Marriage by elopements.
(i) Negotiated Marriage: It is the most
prevalent form of marriage. Formal negotiation
is initiated by the guardians i.e. parents of
the bridegroom through the negotiator. (ii)
Marriage by Service: Now-a-days marriage by
service is not vastly solemnized. In the past it
was most prevalent among the Boroks. When a
young man wishes to marry a girl he has to serve
for some years in the prospective bride's house.
This practice is known as 'Chamari Kamung' in
Kokborok. The period of service is generally
fixed by the bride's side and varies from one to
three years or even more. During this period, he
does all sorts of work. He is to obey all orders
of his prospective father - in - law during the
probationary period. But there are two types of
'Chamari Kamung' - (i) The bridegroom leaves the
bride's house with his bride bag and baggages
after the completion of the probationary period,
which called 'Chamari Bisi Kora Khonsukmung',
and (ii) The bridegroom even after the
completion of the probationary period does not
return to his original home but stays back at
the bride's house for the whole life, which is
called 'Chamari Ompa'. Nowadays, because of
influence of education, this system is going out
of fashion among the Boroks. However, in the
interior placesof Twipra
this system of
marriage is still prevalent but very rare.(iii)
Marriage by Payment or Bride-price Marriage:
Instead of rendering physical service the
bridegroom is more inclined to pay a certain
amount of money to the bride's father for
acquiring the mate. Such amount of money is
known as bride-price. The bride side fixes this
bride-price. At present, with the inclusion of
education and influence of modernity in lieu of
service a boy prefers to pay a certain amount of
money as bride-price for attaining the
matrimonial alliance where there is such system
of marriage is in vogue. (iv) Marriage by
Elopement: This system of marriage is also
another way for acquiring the mate. The marriage
by mutual consent and elopement has been
transformed into socially sanctioned love
marriage with some formal proceedings as seen in
formal marriages in the Borok society. If a boy
falls in love affairs with a girl, the proposal
is sent to the guardians of such boy and girl
through a suitable medium and the guardians
accept such proposal then the marriage
takes place with the formal ceremonies.
Otherwise the boy elopes with the girl and they
reside in remote places from their village. The
elopement is the outcome of the amorous relation
between the boy and girl by mutual understanding
in few cases, the accused party is fined by the
social judgment. In modern ages, this kind of
marriage is most prevalent in the tribal society
like the non-tribal society.
Divorce is the
formal dissolution of marriage. It is allowed
among the Boroks but varying from clan to clan
in the Borok society. Divorce may be initiated
in the following reasonable grounds.
(i) When a
wife or husband falls illicit relation with
another male or female.
(ii) When there is the dearth of mutual
understanding between the husband and wife.
(iii) When
the husband or wife is insane.
(iv) When
the wife is barren or the husband is
hermaphrodite.
(v) When
the wife or husband has suffered from incurable
disease or chronic disease.
(vi) When
the husband or wife has an amatory relation with
another man or woman.
(vii) When a
wife or a husband lives in different places and
no longer maintains any connection for a long
period.
(viii) When a
husband has tortured mentally to his wife, then
the wife must initiate divorce.
If anyone of the
aforesaid conditions arises then a man or woman
may want divorce to the village council. And the
village council is to seek the solution about
such report. For that purpose, they are not
going to court of law. But in the present age, a
change has been noticed among the urbanized and
educationally advanced Boroks. To dispose of
dispute about the conjugal life, the educated
Boroks go to court of law.
If the
divorce is initiated and caused by the husband,
he is to pay a lump-sum amount as a fine to the
rejected wife. More-over, the husband is bound
to refund all ornaments, dress, etc. of the
rejected wife. On the other hand, if the wife
initiates divorce, then she is to compensate. It
is a common picture that if a husband divorces
his wife during her pregnancy, the newly come
offspring will belong to the mother.
If the divorce is initiated
and caused by the husband, he is to pay a
lump-sum amount as a fine to the rejected wife.
More-over, the husband is bound to refund all
ornaments, dress, etc. of the rejected wife. On
the other hand, if the wife initiates divorce,
then she is to compensate. It is a common
picture that if a husband divorces his wife
during her pregnancy, the newly come offspring
will belong to the mother. It is also a general
rule that after the separation the minor child
and suckling child are to remain with the
mother. Although, divorce is allowed among the
tribal people but it has both good and bad
effect. The good effect towards the divorce
should be narrated in the following manner: The
separation makes a man or a woman completely
free from all sorts of family problems or
bindings and from any unforeseen events like
suicide. After the divorce a man or a woman can
start a new life through remarriage. The bad
effect of divorce is rot pervasive. After
getting the divorce, the children are deprived
of proper care and as a result they are grown up
with much negligence. Moreover the children are
also deprived of their parent's affection after
the separation. After the divorce, the husband
is not under any moral obligation to bear all
expenses of the family. As a result, the
rejected or divorced wife falls in economic
problem. So, it can be said that divorce is
blameworthy at the sight of the Borok society.
Remarriage is
permissible in the Borok society of Tripura. A
man or woman remarries after the legal
dissolution of marriage or after the death of
his/her previous wife/husband. A man or woman
cannot remarry during the lifetime of his/her
husband/wife without divorce. However, for the
widow, remarriage is allowed but is not
performed with much pomp, and festivity.
Nevertheless, certain rites and rituals must be
performed in such cases.
Nowadays, few
obstacles are noticed about the remarriage of
widow, widower and divorcee in the Borok
society. Widow and widower cannot remarry before
the funeral ceremony (Sradha) of his/her dead
husband/wife. The widow/widower is not remarried
within the one year of the death of his / her
husband / wife. No rigidity is maintained in the
case of arranged marriage of widow / widower as
such as divorcees. An unmarried man or woman
does not prefer to marry a widow or widower. And
a celibacy Borok boy or girl does not want to
marry a divorced lady or divorced man. If a
widow or a divorced lady wants to remarry then
she searches a widower or divorced man as a life
partner. But in the case of male it is not an
obstacle. It is to me a kind of injustice in the
sense of gender bias that it is a common picture
that although the parents or guardians of
unmarried girl do not desire to give their
virgin girl in marriage with a widower or a
divorced person yet it is allowed but the
opposite is not allowed by the parents or the
guardians with some exception. A very simple
ceremony is performed in the wedding ceremony of
widow / widower or divorcees.
So it can be said
that life of the Boroks is very unique and
distinct from other societies in Tripura.
Sowing, jhuming and harvesting paddy, brewing
rice-beer, singing, dancing, eating, weaving,
helping each other, discipline, obedience,
handicrafts and hunting in the forested hills
and mountains are the main features of Borok
traditional life. |